The First Secret - The Power Of Thought
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Love begins with our thoughts. We become what we think about. Loving thoughts create loving experiences and loving relationships. Affirmations can change our beliefs and thoughts about others and ourselves. If we want to love someone, we need to consider their needs and desires. Thinking about your ideal partner will help you recognize her/him when you meet her/him.
The Second Secret - The Power Of Respect
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You cannot love anyone or anything unless you first respect them. The first person you need to respect is yourself. To begin to gain self-respect ask yourself, “What do I respect about myself?” To gain respect for others, even those you may dislike, ask yourself “What do I respect about them?”
The Third Secret - The Power Of Giving
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If you want to receive love, all you have to do is give it! The more love you give, the more you will receive. To love is to give of yourself freely and unconditionally. Practice random acts of kindness. Before committing to a relationship ask not what the other person will be able to give to you, but rather what will you be able to give them. The secret formula of a happy, lifelong, loving relationship is to always focus on what you can give instead of what you can take.
The Fourth Secret - The Power Of Friendship
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To find a true love, you must first find a true friend. Love does not consist of gazing into each other’s eyes, but rather looking outward together in the same direction. To love someone completely you must love them for who they are, not what they look like. Friendship is the soil through which love’s seeds grow. If you want to bring love into a relationship, you must first bring friendship.
The Fifth Secret - The Power Of Touch
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Touch is one of the most powerful expressions of love, breaking down barriers and bonding relationships. Touch changes our physical and emotional states and makes us more receptive to love.
The Sixth Secret - The Power Of Letting Go
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If you love something, let it free. If it comes back to you , it’s yours, if it doesn’t, it never was. Even in a loving relationship, people need their own space. If we want to learn to love, we must first learn to forgive and let go of past hurts and grievances. Love means letting go of our fears, prejudices, egos and conditions. “Today I let go of all my fears, the past has no power over me - today is the beginning of a new life.”
The Seventh Secret - The Power Of Communication
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When we learn to communicate openly and honestly, life changes. To love someone is to communicate with them. Let the people you love know that you love them and appreciate them. Never be afraid to say those three magic words: “I Love you.” Never let an opportunity pass to praise someone. Always leave someone you love with a loving word - it could be the last time you see them. If you were about to die but could make telephone calls to the people you loved, who would you call, what would you say and..why are you waiting?
The Eighth Secret - The Power Of Commitment
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If you want to have love in abundance, you must be committed to it, and that commitment will be reflected in your thoughts and actions. Commitment is the true test of love. If you want to have loving relationships, you must be committed to loving relationships. When you are committed to someone or something, quitting is never an option. Commitment distinguishes a fragile relationship from a strong one.
The Ninth Secret - The Power Of Passion
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Passion ignites love and keeps it alive. Lasting passion does not come through physical attraction alone; it comes from deep commitment, enthusiasm, interest and excitement. Passion can be recreated by recreating past experiences when you felt passionate. Spontaneity and surprises produce passion. The essence of love and happiness are the same; all we need to do is to live each day with passion.
The Tenth Secret - The Power Of Trust
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Trust is essential in all loving relationships. Without it one person becomes suspicious, anxious and fearful and the other person feels wrapped and emotionally suffocated. You cannot love someone completely unless you trust them completely. Act as if your relationship with the person you love will never end. One of the ways you can tell whether a person is right for you is to ask yourself, “Do I trust them completely and unreservedly?” If the answer is “no”, think carefully before making a commitment.
Friday, July 27, 2007
Sunday, July 22, 2007
normal nonsense..hehe..
Mood : err..not really sure..haha!
Currently listening to : Mcfly - Guy Who Turned Her Down
i feel better now compared to this afternoon..sometimes,i don't know..i just burst..all the emotions i work so hard to push away n control just spill out i guess..takes time doesn't it?=) anyway anyway..i went to swensen's and had YUMMY ice cream!!mmm...it was so tasty..lol!i had frosted chocolate malt..it was fabulous..lol!!look at the picture of the yummy ice cream i had!looks good doesn't it?haha..i so feel like shopping..next on my list is 1.a white handbag 2.turquoise handbag 3.red handbag 4.pumps 5.nude or peach nail polish 6.white shorts and miniskirt and jeans 7.jeans,jeans shorts and jeans miniskirt ...i think that's all for now..lol!!
today..
i don't know what's up with me today but i've been crying so much!!it sucks..my weekend has been okay..went for dad's birthday dinner yesterday in tgif.i had a lovely meal..and great dessert..mocha mud pie-yummy!!and i had half rack beef ribs..and mac and cheese..it was fabulous!!haha..i bought a new dress!!i think i look good in it..turquoise..pretty colour..=) but recently i've been pigging out alot..so i told myself that i gotta eat healthily again because cake,ice cream and chocolate everyday really is unhealthy and so far i've been doing good!!lol..hope i can keep this up..=) it's raining now and the rain's really nice..i just feel so aaahh..*dreamy* later going to swensens for ice cream!!guess my diet really is gonna go haywire..but WHATEVER!!lol!
more quotes!! =)
seeing that i'm in such a mood for sappy sad love quotes..i'll just put them here..
What can you do when the only one who can stop you from crying, is the one making you cry
It takes hours for someone to have the guts to say "I love you" to someone, weeks to admire, days to miss that someone, months to love, but just a blink of an eye to say goodbye.
I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and me tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.
Oh, I shouldn't care or wonder where and how you are, but I can't hide this hurt inside my broken heart. I'm fighting back emotions that I've never fought before because I'm not supposed to love you anymore.
I'm scared to fall in love. Afraid to love so fast....because every time I fall in love it seems to never last.
When a guy says "the last thing I'd wanna do is hurt you" it just means he's gotta do other things first.
I'll never forget the times we shared, and I'll never forget how much you once cared, now it's over but I have one more thing to say, If I had a four leaf clover, I'd wish for one more day.
I would rather be physically hurt than emotionally, because you can put a band-aid on your finger, but you can't put one on your heart.
You aren't thinking about me at all...my eyes are holding back the tears...my pride wont let you see me act as a fool...I'll be damned if I let you know that I still feel something for you...
It hurts to realize that the people you thought you'd love for life don't love you as much as you thought they did and can do without you as if they never knew you at all.
Though he said he'll leave you never, remember now he's gone forever..
You hug him good-bye like its nothing, while all you want to do is hold on forever, but you let go, smile and walk away. Then cry all the way home cuz you know it will never be the same, because try as you might, you cant make someone love you, sometimes you have to let them be free, and letting go, that is when love hurts most of all.
Thanks for the friendship, thank you for the smile. Thanks for the love you showed, though only for a while. True my heart was broken, and yes my eyes did cry, but the pain is all over now, 'cause I have learned to say good-bye..
You always said you hate to see me hurt, you hate to see me cry, so all of those times you hurt me, were you closing your eyes?
"I told you I'd never say good-bye, now I'm slipping on the tears you made me cry. Why does it come as a surprise? To think I was so naive. Maybe it didn't mean so much to you, but it meant everything to me." ~Nine Inch Nails
Somehow, the conversation mentioned your name, and someone asked if I knew you. Looking away, I thought of all the times we had together, sharing laughter, tears, jokes, and tons more, and then with out an explanation you were gone. I looked to where they were waiting for an answer, and then said softly 'once... I thought I did.'
I'd much rather be your lover than your friend, but I'd much rather be your friend than your nobody.
It hurts to see all these couples everywhere. Holding hands, kissing or even just looking at each other with this burning light in their eyes. It's so wonderful, but makes me so jealous at the same time, because all the things they have I once had with you and want with you.
I never knew how quickly I would go, from someone that you loved to someone you used to know..
I didn't realize how much I loved him until he was standing there and he wasn't mine any more.
If someone you love hurts you, then you don't love them. You love who you thought they were.
Sometimes I'll look at you and wonder if you ever look at me. Sometimes I'll think of you and wonder if you ever think of me. Sometimes I'll remember how I fell in love with you and wonder if you ever really loved me.
What can you do when the only one who can stop you from crying, is the one making you cry
It takes hours for someone to have the guts to say "I love you" to someone, weeks to admire, days to miss that someone, months to love, but just a blink of an eye to say goodbye.
I miss you when something really good happens, because you're the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you're the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry, because I know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow, and me tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you the most when I lay awake at night, and think of all the wonderful times that we spent with each other for those were some of the best and most memorable times of my life.
Oh, I shouldn't care or wonder where and how you are, but I can't hide this hurt inside my broken heart. I'm fighting back emotions that I've never fought before because I'm not supposed to love you anymore.
I'm scared to fall in love. Afraid to love so fast....because every time I fall in love it seems to never last.
When a guy says "the last thing I'd wanna do is hurt you" it just means he's gotta do other things first.
I'll never forget the times we shared, and I'll never forget how much you once cared, now it's over but I have one more thing to say, If I had a four leaf clover, I'd wish for one more day.
I would rather be physically hurt than emotionally, because you can put a band-aid on your finger, but you can't put one on your heart.
You aren't thinking about me at all...my eyes are holding back the tears...my pride wont let you see me act as a fool...I'll be damned if I let you know that I still feel something for you...
It hurts to realize that the people you thought you'd love for life don't love you as much as you thought they did and can do without you as if they never knew you at all.
Though he said he'll leave you never, remember now he's gone forever..
You hug him good-bye like its nothing, while all you want to do is hold on forever, but you let go, smile and walk away. Then cry all the way home cuz you know it will never be the same, because try as you might, you cant make someone love you, sometimes you have to let them be free, and letting go, that is when love hurts most of all.
Thanks for the friendship, thank you for the smile. Thanks for the love you showed, though only for a while. True my heart was broken, and yes my eyes did cry, but the pain is all over now, 'cause I have learned to say good-bye..
You always said you hate to see me hurt, you hate to see me cry, so all of those times you hurt me, were you closing your eyes?
"I told you I'd never say good-bye, now I'm slipping on the tears you made me cry. Why does it come as a surprise? To think I was so naive. Maybe it didn't mean so much to you, but it meant everything to me." ~Nine Inch Nails
Somehow, the conversation mentioned your name, and someone asked if I knew you. Looking away, I thought of all the times we had together, sharing laughter, tears, jokes, and tons more, and then with out an explanation you were gone. I looked to where they were waiting for an answer, and then said softly 'once... I thought I did.'
I'd much rather be your lover than your friend, but I'd much rather be your friend than your nobody.
It hurts to see all these couples everywhere. Holding hands, kissing or even just looking at each other with this burning light in their eyes. It's so wonderful, but makes me so jealous at the same time, because all the things they have I once had with you and want with you.
I never knew how quickly I would go, from someone that you loved to someone you used to know..
I didn't realize how much I loved him until he was standing there and he wasn't mine any more.
If someone you love hurts you, then you don't love them. You love who you thought they were.
Sometimes I'll look at you and wonder if you ever look at me. Sometimes I'll think of you and wonder if you ever think of me. Sometimes I'll remember how I fell in love with you and wonder if you ever really loved me.
quotes..quotes..
hey..these are nice meaningful quotes(at least to me)..just feel like putting them here..
You've changed so much. I guess that's what happens. I wish you knew how much you changed me. I wonder if I changed you, if your life is different because of me. Because mine's different. My G-d, you taught me so much, and now we don't even talk to each other. I guess that's what happens.
I used to always think that I'd look back on us crying and laugh, but I never thought I'd look back on us laughing and cry.
"Dear Lord, I pray At the end of this day I'll look back at the choices I've made: The time that I've spent, The places I went, The things that I've chosen to say, The thoughts that I had (The good and the bad) The number of times that I prayed, And that I'll decide I really HAVE tried, And I'd live it again the same way."
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says "I need you because I love you."
If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with...
Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.
They say talk is cheap...but I bought every word.
It wasn't supposed to end this way, you werent supposed to mean this much to me.
I pretend I don't really care
I feel my heart beat with despair
I tough my eyes to stop all the tears
I worry you help bring back all my fears
I cry because we will forever be apart
I am a lonely teenage girl with a broken heart
Same old story
Boy loves girl
They fall in love
Girl falls harder for boy
Girl ends up with the heartache
Things never do change.
Sometimes I wish I could fast forward to see if it was even worth it
True love
Is when you shed a tear & still want him.
It's when he ignores you & you still love him.
It's when he loves another girl, But you still smile & say, "I'm happy for you."
When all you really want to do is cry.
Behind every untrusting girl,is a guy who taught her to be that way.
You've changed so much. I guess that's what happens. I wish you knew how much you changed me. I wonder if I changed you, if your life is different because of me. Because mine's different. My G-d, you taught me so much, and now we don't even talk to each other. I guess that's what happens.
I used to always think that I'd look back on us crying and laugh, but I never thought I'd look back on us laughing and cry.
"Dear Lord, I pray At the end of this day I'll look back at the choices I've made: The time that I've spent, The places I went, The things that I've chosen to say, The thoughts that I had (The good and the bad) The number of times that I prayed, And that I'll decide I really HAVE tried, And I'd live it again the same way."
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you." Mature love says "I need you because I love you."
If you love someone, let them go. If they return to you, it was meant to be. If they don't, their love was never yours to begin with...
Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how many people call you and it's not about who you've dated, are dating, or haven't dated at all. It isn't about who you've kissed, what sport you play, or which guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or your hair or the color of your skin or where you live or go to school. In fact, it's not about grades, money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not. Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or unaccepted you are. Life just isn't about that. But life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust, happiness, and compassion. It's about sticking up for your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance, and building confidence. It's about what you say and what you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are and not what they have. Most of all, it is about choosing to use your life to touch someone else's in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise. These choices are what life's about.
They say talk is cheap...but I bought every word.
It wasn't supposed to end this way, you werent supposed to mean this much to me.
I pretend I don't really care
I feel my heart beat with despair
I tough my eyes to stop all the tears
I worry you help bring back all my fears
I cry because we will forever be apart
I am a lonely teenage girl with a broken heart
Same old story
Boy loves girl
They fall in love
Girl falls harder for boy
Girl ends up with the heartache
Things never do change.
Sometimes I wish I could fast forward to see if it was even worth it
True love
Is when you shed a tear & still want him.
It's when he ignores you & you still love him.
It's when he loves another girl, But you still smile & say, "I'm happy for you."
When all you really want to do is cry.
Behind every untrusting girl,is a guy who taught her to be that way.
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Currently : bored
Music : Maroon 5 - Infatuation
I.A.M.BoReD.N.LoNeLy.Haha..seriously,i feel so alone..like where's everyone?my weekend is going to be another boring weekend.i 'baked' a cake today but it came out funny.oh well,at least i tried!haha..it doesn't taste THAT bad..=P and i cooked fried rice..i achieved stuff!haha..next thing i want to tackle-fudge brownies!yummy! and about feeling lonely,i don't know why..maybe i just feel like pitying myself..?my life seems very monotonous.what is there i can do that will make it more interesting?i have problems sleeping and i get bad dreams..it started recently..ugh..
Music : Maroon 5 - Infatuation
I.A.M.BoReD.N.LoNeLy.Haha..seriously,i feel so alone..like where's everyone?my weekend is going to be another boring weekend.i 'baked' a cake today but it came out funny.oh well,at least i tried!haha..it doesn't taste THAT bad..=P and i cooked fried rice..i achieved stuff!haha..next thing i want to tackle-fudge brownies!yummy! and about feeling lonely,i don't know why..maybe i just feel like pitying myself..?my life seems very monotonous.what is there i can do that will make it more interesting?i have problems sleeping and i get bad dreams..it started recently..ugh..
Sunday, July 8, 2007
List of what I'd like to do during the coming week :
1.watch God save our king! until episode 15 at least(i'm only at 6)
2.work out and lead a healthy lifestyle!(a constant battle)
3.read my current storybook and 'sex,lies...and the truth!' as much as possible
4.read SHAPE mag!^_^
5.SHOP!!
6.sing my head off to fun tunes!
7.love and pamper myself
xoxo
1.watch God save our king! until episode 15 at least(i'm only at 6)
2.work out and lead a healthy lifestyle!(a constant battle)
3.read my current storybook and 'sex,lies...and the truth!' as much as possible
4.read SHAPE mag!^_^
5.SHOP!!
6.sing my head off to fun tunes!
7.love and pamper myself
xoxo
meaningful..
You make me believe
You are the one for me it seems
But now I find its hard
The way you're treating me, it's mean
Time after time I keep changing my mind
And I can't get myself over you
The moment you leave me
The moment you're gone
I don't think that I could last another minute
When we're together
Something so strong
And I don't think that we could ever find a limit
Each time you were down
I helped you on your feet with love
Just as soon as you were ready to
You left me on my own again
When you lie that you love me
And small promises you couldn't keep
How I tried to believe you
But my tears they just cut so deep
And I can't get myself over you
The moment you leave me
The moment you're gone.
You are the one for me it seems
But now I find its hard
The way you're treating me, it's mean
Time after time I keep changing my mind
And I can't get myself over you
The moment you leave me
The moment you're gone
I don't think that I could last another minute
When we're together
Something so strong
And I don't think that we could ever find a limit
Each time you were down
I helped you on your feet with love
Just as soon as you were ready to
You left me on my own again
When you lie that you love me
And small promises you couldn't keep
How I tried to believe you
But my tears they just cut so deep
And I can't get myself over you
The moment you leave me
The moment you're gone.
Mood : okay but slightly sleepy??
Currently listening to : BBMAK - get you through the night
I am currently in love with aaron carter's song - keep believing!it is really meaningful(to me at least)..but oh well..the song is worth hearing!today was a fun day( i guess)..went to church..then i went to some huge 'sale' and bought LOTS of stuff etc. body lotion,mascara,leave-in conditioner..tons of kitkat..haha..it was GREAT!!I love shopping!as usual,my diet this weekend is totally topsy-turvy..i was scarfing down chocolate in the 'sale' and had a banana,orange yoghurt,yam cake and 'kek lapis' for lunch..go figure..went to parade with my sis after that(time to bond) and muahaha..i continued shopping!!bought meself earrings,a nice hairtie,and an anklet!i also saw a CUTE red bag and a FAB pastel purple dress..thinking of dragging my mummy to go look at them..hehe..did i mention i LOVE shopping?lol!then i ate mcds chocotop ice cream..i'm seriously a chocoholic..i don't know why but i'm kinda enjoying this 'free' feeling i'm experiencing..hopefully i feel this happy for as long as possible..=) and i haven't completed my maths homework but WHATEVER.i did addmath by accident actually.oops!^_^"
Currently listening to : BBMAK - get you through the night
I am currently in love with aaron carter's song - keep believing!it is really meaningful(to me at least)..but oh well..the song is worth hearing!today was a fun day( i guess)..went to church..then i went to some huge 'sale' and bought LOTS of stuff etc. body lotion,mascara,leave-in conditioner..tons of kitkat..haha..it was GREAT!!I love shopping!as usual,my diet this weekend is totally topsy-turvy..i was scarfing down chocolate in the 'sale' and had a banana,orange yoghurt,yam cake and 'kek lapis' for lunch..go figure..went to parade with my sis after that(time to bond) and muahaha..i continued shopping!!bought meself earrings,a nice hairtie,and an anklet!i also saw a CUTE red bag and a FAB pastel purple dress..thinking of dragging my mummy to go look at them..hehe..did i mention i LOVE shopping?lol!then i ate mcds chocotop ice cream..i'm seriously a chocoholic..i don't know why but i'm kinda enjoying this 'free' feeling i'm experiencing..hopefully i feel this happy for as long as possible..=) and i haven't completed my maths homework but WHATEVER.i did addmath by accident actually.oops!^_^"
Saturday, July 7, 2007
After Goodbye
I thought I heard you whisper, Between the broken light
I turned to see, to see you fade away
Sometimes I sit and wonder, Just how you could be gone
And tell me why forever couldn't stay
Remember never walk away, never walk away we used to say
I thought we were here to stay, guess we had to go our separate ways
After goodbye
I remember you
You'll always be a part of me I'll hold on to
And after goodbye
No matter what I do I'll never be that far away
I'll be there for you
Even after goodbye
I'll still feel every teardrop, I keep them here inside
But I always thought, I thought that we can't fight
Remember never walk away, never walk away we used to say
I thought that we were here to stay, guess we had to go our separate ways
After goodbye
I remember you
You'll always be a part of me I'll hold on to
And after goodbye
No matter what I do I'll never be that far away
I'll be there for you
Even after goodbye
I'll always remember
With every step I take
The dreams that we shared
I'll never let them go
I'll hold them forever more
I swear
I turned to see, to see you fade away
Sometimes I sit and wonder, Just how you could be gone
And tell me why forever couldn't stay
Remember never walk away, never walk away we used to say
I thought we were here to stay, guess we had to go our separate ways
After goodbye
I remember you
You'll always be a part of me I'll hold on to
And after goodbye
No matter what I do I'll never be that far away
I'll be there for you
Even after goodbye
I'll still feel every teardrop, I keep them here inside
But I always thought, I thought that we can't fight
Remember never walk away, never walk away we used to say
I thought that we were here to stay, guess we had to go our separate ways
After goodbye
I remember you
You'll always be a part of me I'll hold on to
And after goodbye
No matter what I do I'll never be that far away
I'll be there for you
Even after goodbye
I'll always remember
With every step I take
The dreams that we shared
I'll never let them go
I'll hold them forever more
I swear
Oh..this is me first time posting in here so i might just rant for a bit..haha..erm..went to SU's canteen day today..it was kinda fun..was scarfing down chocolate like i had never had it before!=) i also happened to be T.V.'s 'knocking toy' since my foot got stepped on,i got hit(by accident of course,poor me),got pushed..ish ish..but he was a rather fun "date"..he bought me a chocolate milkshake!i also had the chance to meet with "someone special" but it left me feeling kinda down in the end..somehow i think i should just give up.i should just stop bothering about someone who doesn't bother about me right?after a while,memories are just that-memories.that's all they'll ever be..oh well,at least T.V. tried to perk me up..we went "fishing" and i caught more fishies than he did!!hahahaha!=P
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